SELF-DOUBT

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

‘Before working with Umar, I was not as in tune with my emotions as I am today. I’d encounter feelings of fear and anxiety when the topic of commitment in relationships was brought up. The trigger would raise a sense of self-doubt and timidity that spurred conflicting feelings of anger within me. This had been a natural response that cycled over 6-10 years, causing me to end relationships prematurely. These feelings caused me to dissociate and detach from the present, which enabled me to distance and push people away repeatedly, without feeling guilt. There is nothing worse than being aware of what you’re doing and feeling a lack of control from stopping the cascade from happening. Even more puzzling is knowing why it’s there to start with. Working with Umar enabled me to see inside myself and find the answer to that question - “Why?”    

Each session with Umar left me feeling like I was discovering the inner truths within me. Establishing a connection with my subconscious enabled me to finally learn what I always wanted to know. A process of channelling and unloading deep thoughts that brought clarity to why those feelings of fear and anxiety were present to start with. Each time, those feelings were finally being freed from the cycle of self-doubt and timidity. With his voice as a guide, I was able to listen to the voices deep in my mind and understand their intention, their purpose. It was then that the fear and anxiety had lifted when met with thoughts surrounding a committed relationship. 

I would recommend Umar to anyone who struggles with internal conflict, needs someone to listen or receive coaching toward deeper self-discovery and understanding. After this experience I feel more confident when managing my emotional reserve. I’ve never imagined feeling such a sense of Zen when thinking about the future — the first in a long time.’

- Bettina Rodgers, 31, US Military, California, USA.

“I have struggled with self doubt at work for over a year and after working with Umar, my confidence and belief in myself has massively improved in all areas of my life. 

I work in a very detailed oriented job where I am responsible for managing the entire product database of my company. In the last year, I started to experience more and more anxiety about making a mistake and started doubting that I was good at my job. Before working with Umar, my self doubt became so bad that I started my work everyday imagining all the mistakes that I could make which would get me fired.  

Working with Umar has not only helped me identify what was at the roots of my fears but it helped me to reframe these unhealthy fears into something positive so that I can look forward to do my job. During our sessions Umar was very inquisitive and listened very attentively to everything I shared until he identified the cause of the problem. He also had a great sense of humour that made our collaboration enjoyable and something to look forward to. I really enjoyed working with him and I appreciated how thorough he was in investigating my issue.  

After working with Umar, I found my confidence in my job has returned and my self doubt disappeared completely. Surprisingly, I have also benefited from our sessions in other areas of my life and I have found that my confidence massively improved. I would definitely recommend anyone to work with him.”

- Larisa Lipianu, 27, Publishing Co-Ordinator.