COMMITMENT ANXIETY/FEARS

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

‘Before working with Umar, I was not as in tune with my emotions as I am today. I’d encounter feelings of fear and anxiety when the topic of commitment in relationships was brought up. The trigger would raise a sense of self-doubt and timidity that spurred conflicting feelings of anger within me. This had been a natural response that cycled over 6-10 years, causing me to end relationships prematurely. These feelings caused me to dissociate and detach from the present, which enabled me to distance and push people away repeatedly, without feeling guilt. There is nothing worse than being aware of what you’re doing and feeling a lack of control from stopping the cascade from happening. Even more puzzling is knowing why it’s there to start with. Working with Umar enabled me to see inside myself and find the answer to that question - “Why?”    

Each session with Umar left me feeling like I was discovering the inner truths within me. Establishing a connection with my subconscious enabled me to finally learn what I always wanted to know. A process of channelling and unloading deep thoughts that brought clarity to why those feelings of fear and anxiety were present to start with. Each time, those feelings were finally being freed from the cycle of self-doubt and timidity. With his voice as a guide, I was able to listen to the voices deep in my mind and understand their intention, their purpose. It was then that the fear and anxiety had lifted when met with thoughts surrounding a committed relationship. 

I would recommend Umar to anyone who struggles with internal conflict, needs someone to listen or receive coaching toward deeper self-discovery and understanding. After this experience I feel more confident when managing my emotional reserve. I’ve never imagined feeling such a sense of Zen when thinking about the future — the first in a long time.’

- Bettina Rodgers, 31, US Military, California, USA.

“I had a commitment problem in my relationships for several years. After a few sessions with Umar I no longer have this problem.

Before my session, whenever I was in a relationship and if things were going well and I felt the relationship was getting serious, with the other person wanting to commit to me, I would manage to sabotage the relationship or break it off. It was a real pain for me because on the one hand I wanted to be with the person I love and be happy, yet on the other I had fears that held me back. I decided I no longer wanted to continue closing myself off from any progress in my relationships.

 I was quite confident during my sessions with Umar as he was able to identify the real problem. I did not expect the cause of my problem to be so deep. He guided me in his sessions with both gentleness and kindness and I was surprised by the speed and efficiency of the results.

 Today I'm no longer afraid of getting involved in a committed relationship. I can simply live and enjoy my relationship without fear. It's great and I feel relieved of a such a huge burden.

 I highly recommend Umar to anyone who experiences this type of internal conflict. In addition to his professionalism, he is very friendly and has a very kind personality.”

- K. 34. Entrepreneur. Paris. France.